IS IT JUST A JOKE OR A BAD CASE OF BEING A FAN?

As a fan girl, it’s okay to say that your bias is your boyfriend, your husband or whatever you want them to be. It’s understandable since you are a fan but claiming and branding them as your own is another matter especially if you are threatening the lives of other fans.

I’m not into ELF text clan but I have friends from the fandom who got my number from forums and such, which was fine with me coz we have the same interest, Super Junior. And it’s been like a month ever since I’ve been in touch with other ELF through text messaging. It’s fun getting to know them more through it, but lately, I’ve been bothered by something.

At first, it was just one ELF who keeps texting that kind of group message saying things like she doesn’t want other ELF who has the same bias as her to text her. I thought it was okay thinking she was just jealous and it wouldn’t bother me anyway coz we have different bias. But then it gotten somehow disturbing when she started saying things like her bias was hers alone and worst was she mentioned killing whoever claims her bias, not just once but every time she send a group message. Is that a joke or what? Coz if that was a joke, it’s not funny at all.

As her fellow ELF and unnie, I did try to understand her since she was way younger than me. But it really disturbs me when other young girls like her do the same thing. One girl doing that, even if it’s a joke or whatever, is tolerable but when they become 2 or more, it’s quite alarming. Alarming because it’s not only that they threaten the lives of other fans, though I know she don’t have the guts and means to do it, but also their own lives when they keep saying they’ll commit suicide. And other fans really did it right? Why? I don’t get it.

There’s no harm in dreaming but sometimes you have to wake yourself up to pull you back to reality. You are not the only person in this world who happens to like him. There are so many fans out there who happens to like your bias too and you all have the right to claim them as your boyfriend or husband.  You can’t just stop and say to others not to like them. We all have equal rights. I don’t think a fan would like to be known as a delusional, obsessive, deranged one.